Amazement

I am completely amazed at the way i have seen Wives treating their husbands over the last few days.  Its like a dictatorship.  Do this do that and if you don't do it now i will completely lose it.  what is it with some people?  Why is it so hard to love and respect your partner.  Last i knew you got married to spend your life with your best friend, not so that you have someone to tell what to do and when to do it.  Or maybe I am the strange one.